This week…Saturday September 1st to be exact…I am turning 50. <deep breath> Yes, one of those milestone birthdays.
I clearly remember my first “decade day”…my 1oth birthday… as we had just recently moved from San Pedro, California to Springfield, Virginia and I had zero friends. After spending the weeks prior to my big day living in a hotel while my parents searched for a house to buy, I only had my family to celebrate with. It was fairly uneventful but I had an awesome sense of hope and excitement for the future as just a few days later I would begin my life in Virginia with a new school, new friends and a fresh new start. One of the greatest things, as a kid from a military family moving every few years, is that you could “re-make” yourself with every move. Literally the slate was wiped clean and you could start all over and be whomever you wanted to be! My childhood and youth were spent in that decade and life was good. It was during that season that I met Jesus, at almost 17, in a very real and personal way and I have never been the same!
I turned 20 at the start of my junior year at UOP…such an awesome time of my life as we were seeing God move mightily across our campus and the Lord was using me, despite my youth, my many flaws and personal struggles to reach others for Christ! It was an amazing season of life….and when I think back on it I am still in awe at the powerful happenings all around me. I loved being in my 20’s…I felt youthful, confident, independent and strong…in fact in my heart and mind I still often feel like I am in my mid 20’s. I graduated from college in my 20’s, started in ministry in my 20’s, got married in my 20’s, had my first baby in my 20’s but more than anything else during that era I learned that Jesus is all I need, my everything…truly a life changing decade!
Turning 30 was not something I looked forward to….30…it sounded so “old” and besides I wanted to be in my 20’s forever! I was seven months pregnant with my second child and I was sick, tired and blah. I remember being so ambivalent about turning 30 that I told Dan that I did NOT want a birthday party of any kind and yet he put together a small shindig anyway at Mallards Restaurant with a few friends…I was not very happy about it at all (that poor guy!) If the Lord had opened up a window to let me peek at the simply miraculous things that were to take place in that new decade, I would have been thrilled to watch it arrive. In my 30’s I had four of my children. I was a teacher,activity adviser and guidance counselor to students who would become life long friends. I helped found a Christian High School that many said could never happen. I started my Creative Memories career that to this day continues to bless my life in spectacular ways. I also began homeschooling, something I never considered attempting and yet I truly believe it is one of the biggest factors in my children becoming who they are today. My 30’s also included some life changing, course altering tragedies as I lost my dear father (much too young) and I was betrayed and fired from a ministry that I poured my heart and soul into for over a decade. It was definitely a decade of great growth, faith building and new beginnings!
Then 40 came along and I was “loud and proud” about reaching this milestone! I threw myself a big fancy birthday party, despite being three months pregnant with my sixth sweet baby and as always sicker than ever , I was thrilled to get together with my friends and family to celebrate! I felt in some way that I had “arrived” in life…that I had finally made it! This past decade since turning 40 has been filled with both the very good and the very bad:
- I was blessed with three more precious babies…one through adoption, the most miraculous thing I have ever experienced in life!
- I began to have health problems that sent me to the hospital on several occasions
- I had the unfortunate gut wrenching experience of a couple of my children in serious life and death situations where I was forced to deal squarely in the face with my control issues and truly give God complete control of my life.
- I experienced both the best of financial times in our married life and the worst of times(and not because of the economy’s ups & downs)
- I started writing and speaking…two things that I have become passionate about and are sure to shape my future.
- I experienced stellar personal achievements, awards and accolades running my own business, to then be led to scale way back on my efforts there and use those same God given gifts & talents at the high school we had started years earlier, to then be cut loose after three years of great success and momentum because of pride and power struggles in leadership (pride & power…a double edged sword with the ability to do so much good or so much harm depending on whose hands it is in).
- I have had the thrill of launching my first three daughters out into the world and watching them soar!
- I had learned in the previous decade, in my 30’s, to put all my trust in the Lord and had seen the Lord take the worst thing I thought could ever happen and turn it into the greatest thing in my life! This decade I was able to sail much easier through the “bad” knowing that in the end it would be for my greatest good. I enjoyed the peace that comes in knowing that the Lord uses authority, even unwise or misguided authority to lead me in the direction He wants me to go….it felt like I had passed the “Truly Trusting God Test”.
Now here I am turning 50 this week…and ready to celebrate the amazing life I have been blessed with and the great things that God has allowed me to experience and be a part of these past 50 years ( a half a century…doesn’t that sound impressive?!) I am at the beginning of a another new decade of life…a decade that is sure to include many life changing and monumental events (the launching of three more children, college graduations and major life choices for those children in the areas of careers, ministry, marriages and children, helping my mother and inlaws walk through health and other challenges that come with aging while rejoicing in their milestones of 80th birthdays and Lord willing a 60th wedding anniversary as well as celebrating our own 30th & 35th wedding anniversaries, to name a few of the very real possibilities this decade). And yes this decade is sure to have it’s share of hardships, pain and sorrows that I pray I can walk through with grace, peace and strength in my Lord….a living testimony to the greatness of God and an encouragement to others!
As I stand at the edge of this new beginning, the dawn of a new decade of life…I am also filled with excitement, anticipation and hope:
- Hope for even greater things to be done in and through my life than ever before!
- Hope that my dreams of speaking and writing to inspire others to live a life of passion, purpose and praise would come to fruition through Inspire Ministries and perhaps even by joining hands with others to run a Camp and Retreat Center in the Santa Cruz Mountains or wherever the Lord opens doors (I have so many retreats I want to host – Engaged Retreats, Marriage Weekends, Family Camps, Mentoring Moms, Treasured Traditions, Purposeful Parenting, Passionate Living…and more!)
- Hope for a season of provision & prosperity…to not always be the one in need but to generously meet the needs of others!
- Hope for the Lord to use our children to do abundantly above and beyond all that we could ever imagine!
- Hope for the Lord’s return in all His glory! To see Him and to be like Him!
8 responses to “Fabulous 50: A New Decade is Dawning”
Thanks to God ! please pray for me to be in such success.
it will be the best decade yet… as long as He has been doing amazing things for you and through you, i firmly believe the best is yet to be… perhaps this is the decade for your Bethany job? maybe some overseas missionary work? maybe i’ll win the megameillions and build a church on the beach with a Starbucks on one side and a teahouse on the other and you and Dan can run it? who knows? He does… Jer29:11
not a cat lover? EVERYBODY is a cat lover! lol, actually… i may be wrong, but i seem to remember you saying you were allergic to them once?
What a wonderful recap to read about. I hope you have a wonderful new decade and that the Lord blesses you. You have sure had a full and wonderful life. Happy Early Birthday!
Love seeing all of those pictures, and reading about your life. I have been so very blessed to have known you for over 24 years! Wow! God has so much more is store for you Beth! What a beautfiul journey you have been on, and what a beautiful journey the Lord will continue to lead you on……….
Happy 50th week… Your a beautiful lady!!
Beth what a wonderful almost nut shell account of your journey through life. I’ve known you almost half your life now and what an amzing teacher and mentor you were and now an incredible friend. May God continue to lead and guide you in all things. Blessings to you on your 50th birthday….it looks good on you 🙂
Your testimony here is a great one. God has really favoured you by taking you through your life’s challenges and i think its because you are His friend. You have inspired me so much by your life and testimony and i pray God to give me your kind of grace.- IKWUJI, FAITH (Nigeria)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN ADVANCE AND MANY MORE YEARS OF TESTIMONIES!